Manipulation, in the context of psychology, is a form of social influence[1] often viewed negatively. It diverges from influence and persuasion[2], which are perceived as neutral or harmless. While persuasion aims to guide others towards a desired action, manipulation is used for self-serving purposes or to advance personal agendas, often exploiting individuals’ vulnerabilities such as naivety or low self-esteem. Manipulation can have harmful effects on relationships, distorting the manipulated individual’s perception of reality and leading to emotional blackmail or gaslighting. Tactics used in manipulation include seduction, suggestion, and persuasion. It’s essential to recognize signs of manipulation, understand the difference from influence, and consider ethical aspects when dealing with such behavior. Studies show a correlation between manipulation and antisocial disorders, highlighting the importance of empathy in prevention.
In psychology, manipulation is defined as subterfuge designed to influence or control another, usually in a manner which facilitates one's personal aims. The methods used distort or orient the interlocutor's perception of reality, in particular through seduction, suggestion, persuasion and non-voluntary or consensual submission. Definitions for the term vary in which behavior is specifically included, influenced by both culture and whether referring to the general population or used in clinical contexts. Manipulation is generally considered a dishonest form of social influence as it is used at the expense of others.
Manipulative tendencies may derive from cluster B personality disorders tais como narcissistic, antisocial personality disordere borderline personality disorder (usually by feigning distress or using flattery, gaslighting, emotional blackmail ou love-bombing ou seduction to obtain affection or to avoid abandonment). Manipulation is also correlated with higher levels of dark empathy, emotional intelligence, and is a chief component of the personality construct dubbed Machiavellianism.